More cardinal truths of life

• We have all been in love with love, not necessarily in love with a person
• There is great pleasure in doing a job well…then why do we humans pass up that so often?
• The average person does not like complicated messages ; a message must be simply one line for them to consume it
• Practice waiting…it is the best thing we can do in most circumstances
• Courage comes to us only in desperation
• There is so much to be thankful for… but we are hardly ever conscious of this
• The most difficult thing to achieve is being contented with ourselves
• Not doing anything at all is so much more powerful sometimes than doing something
• What can be the worst thing that can happen? …is the best question to ask
• Household routines are dictated by one person…suffered by all others!
• Everything is understood only in retrospect
• We all have private jokes in our minds
• We fear intelligence, side with mediocrity and tolerate stupidity
• Spousal relationships will always remain unequal; one among them invests emotionally more than the other
• Isn’t it ironical that people rob flowers to place before God?
• We ask the other to meet our expectations…when will we consider meeting their expectations?
• We can never take out money from any equation…we only pretend to do so
• Complaining is easy…quitting is not
• The most rampant ailment we humans suffer from is stupidity
• When we are mentally scolding or arguing with someone the ideas, language and eloquence are outstanding…can’t say the same in reality!
• Good news is always written in small print
• The cardinal truth is it is not possible to love all your children equally
• The uniqueness of household work is that nobody has to give it to you…its yours for the taking
• Good relationships are contingent up on what you do for each other
• We fail to notice our own children growing up…but seriously attend to their children growing up!
• We are what we read
• If we all could say what we wanted to say, the world would be a chaos!
• Being there at the right time…that has been the most important thing in our lives
• People need each other, rather than love each other, after a while
• We miss others for our own sake, not for their sake
• If only…. Is the greatest regret in our lives
• We count all the material things we have accumulated as achievements, rarely do we realise the experiences we have accumulated and the positivity it brought to our personalities as achievements
• Perception is deceptive; it make you see what you want to see, not what is actually true
• People don’t learn from experience…that’s where the problem lies
• Those among us who cringe creating scenes, are always losing verbal battles
• At some point in our life we must stop planning to do things and actually do them…success is assured only then
• Complacency could be worse than impulsiveness; at least some action takes place by being impulsive
• Nobody knows everything…everybody knows something…and there lies the problem!
• People constantly ask for advice but seldom follow it
• Many times people best suited for the job are never given it…for fear that they will actually do it very well!
• What is a gift if it is not given of free will and in secrecy?
• There are more human parasites in this world than those among flora and fauna, it appears!
• An off track genius is more dangerous than a moron
• People do not explore their talents in life for various reasons; if only they did, the world would be a very different place
• Being honest has rarely rewarded anybody…reason why we see so little of this wonderful human trait
• People want to take credit and not give credit…
• Avoiding crisis in life is not a good idea…the best in us comes out only in crisis situations
• When we fail to look inwards, we not only avoid finding unpleasant things , but fail to see the good things about ourselves too
• Not having a choice is good for humans…they will do the needful
• Humans desire a lot of things when they cannot have them…but they end up getting them when they no longer desire them
• Humans are more obsessed about their enemies than their friends and family
• People drift apart in relationships rather than break them up…
• In life people are missed sorely only when they can no longer be back
• Appreciation comes only when threat perception disappears
• Making adjustments requires strength of mind…demanding adjustment is easy and reflects weakness rather than strength